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“Take me home tonight, I don’t want to let you go till you see the light”

And, hello from exotic Highland Park, New Jersey! This is the last entry for our 2016 journey. However, if we are lucky enough to get away anywhere else this summer, I will try and blog. Thank you to everyone who read, laughed, tried the trivia questions, or sent comments. If our summer travels are like an ice cream sundae, then, to me, writing this blog is the whipped cream, hot fudge, and sprinkles on top! Can you tell I’m hungry and dieting??!!!

We left our campground around 9 this morning, and headed back to the museum bookstore. There were a few souvenirs we wanted to pick up. After that, it was smooth sailing all the way to Jersey. Well, we did get a little lost around Harrisburg (Robin C. – we could have said hi/bye/hi/bye with the amount of U turns we made!). We arrived home at 1 p.m., to overgrown grass, weeds, plants, and mail!! Many thanks again to all those who helped while we were away. Since we’ve been home we accomplished the following: we got Mikaela to a friend’s party, as she has overdosed on parent bonding time; I went to see and spend good time with my Mom, I picked up a few food items, Rich unloaded a bunch of things from the RV, we ate dinner and are on our second load of laundry…AND, we power walked 3 miles!! I HATE coming home!!!

We are back to reality and back to our summer, as usual. I will leave you with the last few pictures we took this morning. Be good, be well, and have fun. And thanks for coming along!

With love and appreciation,
Marla, Rich and Mikaela

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Rich, in deep thought with Lincoln!

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Proof that we were there!

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Mikaela and her “hot” friend!

“Hello, can you hear me? I’m (in California) dreaming about who we used to be, When we were younger and free; I’ve forgotten how it felt before the world fell at our feet. There’s such a difference between us, and a million miles. Hello from the other side; I must have called a thousand times…”

 

We spent our last full day out just relaxing at the Gettysburg Campground.  It’s very nice and peaceful here.  It’s all families, and it’s all about smiles and campfires and laying back.  I don’t know exactly what the temperature was, but we were lucky to be able to sit outside in full shade with a magnificent breeze for most of the day.  It was the only Saturday of the entire trip that we were comfortable just sitting outside. We went swimming for awhile; a brief rainfall interrupted the pool time, but after it passed, everyone got back in the water. At several times during the day, there were announcements for competitions and “coloring” winners and camp events that were taking place.  We’ve never been someplace with a p.a. system.  It brought us back, with a laugh, to the days we used to staff our youth group’s week long encampment, and the announcements we would CONSTANTLY make over the p.a.  This is a very random reference that only a handful of people will appreciate, but “Steve and Judy:  Hakshivu! Hakshivu!”!!  It was sort of nice to be in a campground with that much of a personal touch, and that much of a connection to the kids here.

Rich, of course, finished his 4th book.  For those of you who are keeping track (and clearly have NOTHING better to do!), he read James Patterson’s “15th Affair”.  It was awesome, he reports.  It was well written, compelling, and left you wanting to read more, moving forward. Reading 4 books in these 3 ½ weeks was 4 more books than he’s read the entire year.

I read “The Boston Girl” by Anita Diamant.  What a fabulous story!!  I highly recommend this book, even though I have about 60 pages to go.  It’s the story of a young woman growing up in Boston in the 1900’s, and the struggles she faces with her dysfunctional family and her poor community.  I’ve read 3 books, and recommend 2.  Not bad.   Mikaela already finished all 4 books that she brought along (even though I bought her a bunch more before we ever left…).  So, today, she played a million games of solitaire.  Whatever.

The trivia question that Rich asked last night was both picky and tricky.  The photo was a picture of “Devil’s Den”, one of the sites where Confederate Soldiers attempted to take control of Little Round Top.  It was taken from Little Round Top, a famous location in the Battle of Gettysburg.  That’s all I got, folks…I am history’d out!!

We are sitting in front of a great campfire (see below) with our technology, as the wifi keeps cutting out on us. I am quiet in reflection of the last 25 days.  How great they were!  We got to see and experience so many things, in so many places.  We thank G-d for the good health and the opportunity, and we thank those at home who kept things on track for us when we weren’t there.  We even started to discuss what we might have in mind for 2017…but no spoilers yet.

This journey also allowed us to reunite with old friends from many different parts of our lives.  We had a fabulous time with Elyse and Steve in Charleston. We spent such a great morning with Peter in Jacksonville.  We were so glad to see Kristin and Steve in their home just outside of Jacksonville.  We giggled with Robin and Abby walking through Gettysburg.  And just yesterday, we had an awesome breakfast with Bruce and Mira.  It’s all about living your life, and moving ahead, while remembering who you are, where you came from, and what your life is really about.  And, if you have friends in different places with whom you are lucky enough to reconnect, the result is priceless.  But, what happens when you ask to reconnect, and you are turned down? How do you reconcile that?

The following story is a truth that I have been feeling for quite awhile.  Other than Rich, Mikaela and my Mom, there are only 2 people in the entire universe who know the true identity of this person, and that’s the way it will stay.  In my down time, I try and reconnect on social media with old friends, acquaintances and co-workers.  Unless there was a “bad break”, shall we say, there is no reason to not say hello again.  A few months ago I “found” an old friend on social media.  I had been searching for this friend for quite awhile.  We haven’t seen each other in years and years, and we disconnected as time and distance and life took over.  This friend and I were so close, we were almost like family.  I realized that, during our travels this summer, we were going to be “thisclose” to their community.  I privately reached out, weeks before we left.  I stated that we would be “in the area”, and asked if we could we meet for coffee or ice cream or just a hug and a hello.  There was no answer.  Not a yes, not a no.  Just silence.  That was upsetting, to be honest.  I never ask to come to anyone’s home or to invade anyone’s privacy – I just ask to say hi.  A few weeks after this first attempt, I tried one more time.  And, as before, this person “went ghost” – never answering either way.  I respect the passage of time, and I respect the privacy of everyone.  However, when no answer at all is given, it makes you question the validity of the friendship in the first place.  Were we really “the best of friends”?  Would we really “always be there for each other”? Just think about the things people say to each other in autograph books, or yearbooks, or in cards and letters.  Always is a very long time. Some families aren’t even there for each other for “always”.  This painful silence from this long time friend has made me repeatedly ask myself, Were we really friends? Did we really mean the same thing to each other? Was my dedication to this friendship reciprocated, or was I involved in the greatest mistruth of my life?  More than one sleepless night on this amazing trip was spent in turmoil and thought – and disappointment.

In the end, we never met up, and I never reached out again.  Nor will I reach out in the future.  The physical distance between us is great enough that I will not be in close proximity again for a long time, if ever.  And now, the emotional distance is ten times as far.  My smart mom says there are reasons why people shy away from reunions, and their truth has to be their secret.  And I know that is the right answer.  However, my mom also said how great it has been to reunite with long time friends and sort of say “See? I’m still here, and look where I’ve been and where I am – and it’s so nice to see you again.” There have been so many wonderful people during our summer trips that have reached out and/or agreed to a visit.  I have to say that back in 2009 we connected with high school classmates who I never even knew in high school!  But, they were so wonderful and so generous, just the fact that we had a common background, and I was visiting their “turf”, was enough for a reunion. While we travel, there are many, many friends with whom we have ALMOST been able to connect, but timing and location was just a drop off.  And it’s never about “putting on airs” – it’s about hugging hello and talking about reality and catching up and listening to both sad and happy stories.  It is about saying “Hey, it’s so many years later and here we are…and I just want to hug you hello and reconnect.”  That’s the true meaning behind tonight’s blog title.  I have been “dreaming about who we used to be, when we were younger and free”. “There’s such a difference between us, and a million miles.” At our age, we really are on the “other side”.  I can admit that I won’t stop trying to reconnect with others in our trips throughout the country.  So, instead of a trivia question for tonight, I would like to ask you this question: If an old friend or former good acquaintance was coming to your town, and asked to say hi or meet for coffee, and you were available… would you say yes? If you wouldn’t, would you decline?  Would you “go ghost”, as they say, and just never answer? And why?  There are no wrong answers here, of course.  I am just curious to hear your answers. And, to those who answer, thank you for sharing.

It’s time to get the RV packed up and ready to make it home.  We aren’t looking at a very long drive…and our Sunday is already packed full of things we need to do once we pull in the driveway.  I will try and touch base and bring closure to our story tomorrow night.  Have a very nice Sunday.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

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Mikaela, Rich and I back to nature: 1 fire, 3 smart phones, and a laptop.

“The night they drove old Dixie down, and all the bells were ringin’….”

We were up with the sun this morning!  At 6 a.m., the alarm went off, and we were up, dressed and out the door before 7.  It could be considered a miracle!  We headed off to do a self guided auto tour of the Gettysburg battlefield.  A person could spend weeks here, and could do a different kind of tour every day, and STILL not see everything there is to see.  A few years ago, friends Bill and Erika J. lent us their audio C.D. of a tour through the Battlefield.  We listened to the tracks on the way into Gettysburg yesterday, to become familiar with the material.  And this morning, we took the tour.  The C.D. is great; it is full of historical information and insights and battlefield sound effects that keep the listeners fully engaged.  Again, the tour takes as long as one wants it to take.  We spent about an hour or so on the field, and then rushed to the Visitors’ Center.  We saw an interesting video with a great overview on the Battle of Gettysburg.  Following that, we experienced a “cyclorama” – a 360 degree oil painting on canvas of Pickett’s Charge, illuminated with the lights and sounds of war, accompanied by music and a dramatic narration.  It was awesome!

We took a break from the 1860’s, and met up with friends Bruce and Mira, who used to live in our town, but now live in Gettysburg.  The hours flew by as we ate breakfast, caught up, told stories, and laughed – a lot!  It was another wonderful reunion.  I am so glad we reconnected! Thanks for meeting us – and the Diner was great!

At 12:15, we entered the Segway Tours office. You read that correctly; we spent the afternoon in the Gettysburg Battlefield, on SEGWAYS.  For those who don’t know what a Segway is, it is a self propelled machine that allows the rider to move without walking.  And, I was as comfortable and coordinated on my Segway as you are all picturing. I can compare it to…unicycle riding.  Or, bull riding.  Or, death by lack of balance.  I was, to say the very least, OUT of my comfort zone.  The Segway trainers were patient and excellent, and I guess I did fine in the end, because we all did the 2+ hour Segway tour without a trip to the hospital!  It was NOT easy, and it makes for incredibly sore calves and legs and feet.  So, the next time you see people on Segways, and they are smiling, they are only smiling for effect.  It hurts like hell!

We reserved a Segway tour with a certified Gettysburg guide, and he was a fairly funny guy with a boatload of interesting information on the Battle of Gettysburg.  We each wore a headset with an earpiece (under our very goofy helmets!) to hear his commentary on what we were seeing. He taught us things that we hadn’t learned in the Visitors’ Center nor with the Auto tour.  I have to be honest, for the first half of the tour I could not concentrate on anything that he was saying.  I was concentrating on not falling on the hard asphalt and not crashing into Mikaela.  Mikaela, it goes without saying, had a blast on the Segway; she was riding one handed within minutes, and was following the entire narration, looking at all the markers the guide mentioned. I do want to mention that she was really into the entire experience.  She must be a great auditory learner (although she doesn’t always hear me!!!), because with the guided tour and the audio tour, she was right on target. And, of course, Rich was great and a natural as well.  I stayed vertical.  I didn’t kill anyone.  I didn’t crash into a bus, a car, or a Civil War Monument.   I was successful.  And, I am DONE with THAT experience!

We returned the rental car, and crashed for a little while back “at home”.  We are once again preparing for our final weekend, our day of rest. Ironically…it is “Christmas In July Weekend” at the Gettysburg RV Resort! The family next to us is decorating a Christmas tree. There are winter decorations around the camp.  They are showing the movie “Elf”!  And, I am sure there are additional activities for the children here.  Don’t think we are party poopers or anything, but we’re going to pass.

I would be lying if I said I wasn’t sad – I am profoundly sad that our adventure has come to an end.  I miss our friends and family – moms, kids and grandkids especially – but I don’t miss Jersey. This experience is my happy place.  I am pretty exhausted, both physically and mentally.  I know Rich drives every RV mile, and he wins for camper of the century.  However, every RV resort, stop, tourist attraction, reservation, route and final detail is on me.  I LOVE it that way.  I LOVE the planning and the final outcome.  But, at the end, it’s an overwhelming plan with ultimate responsibility for everyone’s happiness.  As we have seen, this trip has had something for each one of us. And I am glad it was, up to this writing, a success.

The answer to yesterday’s trivia: Arsenio Hall beat Clay Aiken to win Celebrity Apprentice. No takers, huh?  Alright, one more trivia question on Gettysburg: Look at this visual:

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Here’s the 2 part trivia question from Rich, regarding the image above: a. What is this a picture of? and,   b. Where was it taken from?  I personally think this is more difficult than final jeopardy, so you can blame Rich.  Answer tomorrow night.

With more devastating terrorism news, I sign off to you, wishing you a Shabbat Shalom, a peaceful Saturday, and a lovely weekend.  I, like you, will be praying for peace.

 

Until Saturday evening,

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

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A scene at the Cyclorama.

 

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Mikaela. A natural!

“When Johnny comes marching home again, Hurrah! Hurrah!  We’ll give him a hearty welcome then, Hurrah! Hurrah!…”

Greetings from Gettysburg!  This is our final stop on our 2016 vacation.  We have wanted to come here for the past two years, but our travels never took us – until today.

After leaving our nice Virginia campground, we had a relatively short trip up here.  We made one short stop at Cracker Barrel.  We didn’t stop to eat; we stopped to shop!  Mikaela has never been to a Cracker Barrel, and we haven’t been to one in 5 years. We shopped, we bought, and we were entertained at the store itself.  Sometimes, even a Cracker Barrel can be a cool vacation stop!

We arrived in Gettysburg, and went to the Visitor’s Center to get some idea of what we need to see, and when.  The staff was so helpful and so knowledgeable.  Our campground is a mere ten minutes from the Visitor’s Center and from downtown Gettysburg.  We are staying at “The Gettysburg Campground”.  (Original name, huh?!)  The campground was immediately friendly, full of life, and much more similar to those to which we have become accustomed.  Minutes after our arrival, Enterprise Rental arrived in order to set us up with our rental car.  The company is fabulous for an RVing family – I just want to say that once again.  This time, we are driving a Jeep Patriot.  It’s sort of an appropriate car for Gettysburg, no?

This evening was spent walking around the town itself. More importantly, it was spent reuniting with a long time friend.  Robin, our former babysitter, and her daughter Abby were nice enough to come and meet us for the evening.  It’s been years since we have seen each other, and we spent the evening catching up while walking around, souvenir shopping.  Exercise; shopping, laughing, talking….what could be better than that?? I hit 10,000 steps for the first time in a few days, which should help counteract the ice cream we ate!  These reunions are phenomenal!

The historical, tourist rich town of Gettysburg is pretty big, with much to see and learn.  It is very clean and pretty, and has an authentic feel with historic buildings, statues, and people in period Civil War clothing.  There was more to see than we could walk to this evening, and there are many, many activities to do.  I am glad we picked this destination as our last.  We went from Civil Rights to Civil War.  It’s a little dyslexic, but more geographically favorable this time.

No one answered the trivia question completely correctly yesterday.  Our friend Andrea got 50% correct, but not all.  “Bridge Over Troubled Waters” was made famous by Simon and Garfunkel in the late 60’s, and then by Clay Aiken in season 2 of American Idol.  Today’s trivia has to do with Clay Aiken, and the current topic of conversation around the water cooler.  And so, for today, answer this: Who won “Celebrity Apprentice” a few seasons back, when Clay Aiken came in second place?  I have to get to bed earlier than usual – we are getting up tomorrow at 6 a.m.!  We have a very busy day in store.  A couple of pictures from the past 24 hours – and we’ll catch ya tomorrow!

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

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Natural Bridge KOA Campground. Very nice.

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Early Thursday morning, in Natural Bridge (which, we still have never seen).

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The girls and Abe in Gettysburg.

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Peek a boo!

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Old friends saying hello again. Robin and I.

“Like a bridge over troubled waters, I will ease your mind, like a bridge over troubled waters, I will ease your mind…”

It is nice to be writing to you from Natural Bridge, Virginia. Picture this scene: It is a comfortable, summer evening. There is a roaring fire burning in a fire pit, there are roasted marshmallows, there are crickets and frogs and the other popular sounds of summer, there are fireflies…and there is a woman blogging with a laptop! This is more like camping. We love the change of scenery; the woods and dirt and trees kind of space that we are in tonight. This is the first campfire that we have been able to share, as the temperatures on this fabulous vacation have hovered in the high 90’s around the clock. That is, until today. This was the first day there was a noticeable drop in the heat. And it is a very welcomed change.

We slept a bit later than usual this morning, and left the Volunteer Family Campground after 11. “The Volunteer Family Campground”…isn’t that a great name? We didn’t have to volunteer for anything. It is a nice place in a very convenient spot. That’s why we stopped there. Our route north was going along fine…until late in the afternoon. An accident stopped all traffic, and for 45 minutes, it stopped us along with the others. And we had been moving so well! The scenery in Tennessee and Virginia is made up of rolling green hills and fields, and blue green mountains. We passed miles and miles of natural beauty – and it was a clear, bright day. All in all, it was a lovely vacation day.

When we stopped for lunch, we tried something new. We cooked for lunch! Never thought about doing that before – and it was very cool. The rest stop in Virginia was spotless and beautiful, and a nice break in our day. And lunch was delicious!

We finally arrived in Natural Bridge around 6 p.m. We had a fabulous grilled dinner and went swimming to get our bodies moving after a day of sitting. All was fine, the pool was refreshing, and then Rich noticed…the bats. The kind that fly! That was all for me! I was gone. We went back to the RV…and that brings me full circle to where I started.

There was another thought process for tonight. There is a drive-in theatre 20 minutes away. The double feature tonight was “Secret Life of Pets” and “Ghostbusters”! They charge $7.00 a person. Doesn’t that sound like a hoot? Unfortunately, we could not get a definite answer either way if they would allow us to enter with the motor home. We didn’t want to take a chance and unhook and drive 20 minutes each way with the uncertainty of not getting in, so we chose not to go. But, it did sound interesting. Instead, we enjoyed the pool, the campfire, and the Republican National Convention. Hmmm. And that’s all I will say on that topic.

No one had the answer to Birmingham’s nickname. It was “The Magic City”. Here’s today’s useless trivia question: The title of this blog is from a song by the same name. Who made it famous in the late 60’s, AND who made it famous again on “American Idol”? A 2-part answer must be given in order to win!

Time to go. Have a good one. Catch you tomorrow. Only a few days left.
Marla, Rich and Mikaela

The beauty of the Virginia rest stop.

The beauty of the Virginia rest stop.

“You say you want a revolution. Well, you know – we all want to change the world. You tell me that it’s evolution – well, you know. We all want to change the world….”

Greetings from Heiskell, Tennessee! The weather is a drop cooler and the scenery is pretty, but the shrubs are a darker shade of green. All signs of beach and south and gulf are long gone. We spent almost all day today driving, and thankfully we arrived at our campground before dark. It was a long day, and I was not able to get my 10,000 steps in. I DID forego a “S’more” tonight- for just one toasted marshmallow; I recognize my limitations!

We left Troy, Alabama before 8:30 this morning, and returned the rental car. Our destination was Birmingham, a 2 hour drive north. There, we visited the Birmingham Civil Rights Institute. This is a fantastic interactive center that teaches the history of Birmingham from its beginnings in the 1870’s, and tackles the Civil Rights Struggles as they pertained to both Birmingham and the rest of the South. Our lessons in Selma and Montgomery led to our greater understanding of the topics discussed in this center. Video and audio presentations, statues and artwork, and intricate set designs were all part of the effectiveness of the BCRI. Trivia question for today: What was Birmingham’s nickname? It had to do with its very fast rise as a bustling metropolis. Answer tomorrow night.

Across the street from the center is the 16th Street Baptist Church. You might recall that in 1963, 4 young girls were killed in a Sunday morning bombing there. We attended one of their very informative tours. The church is on the National Registry of Historic Places. The story is devastatingly sad, and the memorial is touching. The girls lost their lives in a downstairs ladies’ room. Since the bombing, the church completely sealed off the area behind a wall, which no one can access. Following the tragedy, there were several men thought to be responsible for the bombing. Some were prosecuted, some died before being tried, some were never officially charged, and still others were never found. It’s a landmark act of terrorism that Birmingham still mourns, and it’s important for others to learn the story.

We ate lunch in the RV, and headed north. The time zones changed back during our ride, so we lost an hour. I really liked Central Standard Time. It seemed I was on a much better schedule! We drove through Alabama, Georgia, and into Tennessee. The roads were relatively empty, except for a short stretch near Chattanooga – where the drivers and the traffic were both awful. Mikaela slept just about the entire afternoon – that’s how she deals best with long drives. Rich and I found an oldies radio station- oldies from the 70’s and the 80’s! – and we were loving it!

The campground we are in seems nice and friendly – but we really aren’t spending much more than the night here. Tomorrow we are on the road, once again. Our 2016 dream trip is racing to an end, and I am desperately trying to put on the brakes. It’s almost as if the work we do all year long is just to be able to travel in the summer. I love these trips, I really do. Before returning home, we are planning at least two more visits with long time friends. There is so much meaning to our road trip reunions!

The answer to the trivia question from yesterday is as follows: The tent cities that popped up in Alabama were a direct result of the Selma to Montgomery March for Voting Rights. When the white landowners discovered that the people who lived on their land had marched and/or were registered to vote, they evicted them. These brave people had no where to live, thus sparking the tent cities. This is just another fact that I never knew about, until yesterday. It would be an understatement to say this was one of the most educational trips I have ever experienced.

Here are some pictures from yesterday and today. Catch you tomorrow.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

Downtown Selma.

Downtown Selma.

On the Edmund Pettus bridge, looking back at Selma.

On the Edmund Pettus bridge, looking back at Selma.

The 16th Street Baptist Church.

The 16th Street Baptist Church.

BCRI - One of the many displays of barriers.

BCRI – One of the many displays of barriers.

So long, Birmingham.

So long, Birmingham.

“….Didn’t you love the things that they stood for? Didn’t they try to find some good, for you and me? And we’ll be free…some day soon, it’s gonna be one day…..”

 

I have always had a different song lyric for each day’s post.  Today, these lyrics are the continuation of the song lyrics from yesterday.  This is because today was the continuation of yesterday’s story – yesterday’s history.  What an incredibly meaningful day we had today.

Up earlier than usual, we had a 90 minute drive to Selma.  The weather was clear, skies were bright blue, and the sun was very, very hot.  The roads were clear, and the traffic was, once again, light.  We were on our way, about a half hour outside of Selma, and Rich saw a sign that said, “Interpretive Center – Selma to Montgomery”. He pulled off the road, and what a great idea he had.   We happened upon the Lowndes Interpretive Center on the Selma to Montgomery National Historic Trail.  This center is part of the National Park System, and is a free, brilliant, informative center on the March on Montgomery.  With artifacts and interviews and first hand accounts, the three of us learned – really learned – what things were like in Alabama in the 1950’s and 1960’s.

This Center is wonderful.  I hope there are many, many people who visit and learn throughout the year.  We spent a long time digesting information and listening to recordings.  At the end, Rich put it perfectly: “My heart hurts.”

We made our way into Selma.  In contrast with yesterday’s visit to Montgomery, Selma looks like what I thought it would look like.  Selma still appears as it did many, many years ago.  There are crumbling facades, worn storefronts, and abandoned buildings as well.  We found Selma to be a clean city, and the people we met were very nice and friendly.   There weren’t many people bustling around – but, to be fair, it was over 100 degrees outside.  We started our visit at the Selma Interpretive Center, another free National Park System location.  There was more to learn, and more to see and hear.  We proceeded from there to the Selma Visitor’s Center.  There was not much there –just a few nice people to meet.  And these “Alabamans” keep saying how much they love our accent!  WHAT accent?!!

We took a walk down the main street, and stopped in a few stores.  It is very much “little town U.S.A.”. It is not a typical tourist town at all; Selma maintains its history with every brick in its storefronts, every cobblestone in its streets.  The people with whom we spoke were kind and friendly.  There are many signs and banners around town that speak of peace, freedom, and that advertise the yearly re-enactment of the crossing of the Edmund Pettus Bridge.  As Rich said, the people of Selma “own” their history – and are proud of their actions.

We took a lunch break, and ate our delicious packed lunch back in our air conditioned car.  Better hydrated, and inspired like crazy, we crossed over the famous Edmund Pettus Bridge.  It was an out of body experience, very emotional and surreal. I kept seeing all the images we saw in the Interpretive Centers.  I kept remembering the horrors that those “foot soldiers” saw as they reached the top of the bridge – saw the sea of police officers ready to stop them when they got to the other side.  That day was the first attempt of the crossing, and was known as “Bloody Sunday”. It took place on March 7, 1965. Many men, women and children were injured on that day. A second attempt took place two days later, and the marchers turned back at the barricades of the state troopers.  Finally, on March 21, 1965, the marchers successfully walked out of Selma, and headed toward Montgomery.  They reached Montgomery on the 25th, and the crowd grew to 25,000 strong by the end of the walk.  There were men, women and children.  There were old and young, black men and women and white men and women, and people of all different backgrounds and beliefs.  Their cause for this walk was one singular wish: They demanded the right to vote and to be able to register to vote as a person of color.  I feel so privileged to have been able to walk over that bridge and back today – and to do so as a free person.

At the foot of the bridge, we went to the National Voting Rights Museum and Institute.  This was our real goal today.  Unfortunately, it was less than expected.  The 2 centers we went to earlier in the day were brilliant, and, it must be said, air conditioned!  This center, which charged a small fee, seemed to have less to show and less to say.  And it was not air conditioned.  We all found it hard to concentrate on the information and the exhibits.  There was some interesting information, to be sure; it just wasn’t the highlight of our trip.

We stopped in a shop across the street that sold memorabilia, and met a lovely woman who told us how all these buildings were used as sets in the movie “Selma’.  She herself was an extra in the movie.  We made our way back over the bridge, and back to our car.  The heat was really getting to us.  We took a drive around the town, and saw some of the historic homes, landmarks, churches and cemeteries in Selma.  On our way back “home”, we went along the same route as those marchers.  We took note of the historical markers that pointed out the 4 campsites of the march – the fields along the route in which the marchers stopped and slept.  I’m telling you, history came to life today.

On our way home, we discussed the fact that so much of this was never taught in our schools.  This important piece of history did NOT make it info the curriculum of Clifton, Brick or even our local schools.  I never learned about this March, about the horrors of the south, about Selma or Montgomery.  It was not until adulthood that I became aware of these events that occurred in MY lifetime.  I am bothered by this – I really am.

After a lengthy ride back, that allowed us all to think, we were back in the present.  We stopped at our friend, Super Wal-Mart, and picked up some needed items.  Finally, we decided to take advantage of one of the few local cuisine items that we felt we could handle: we had an order of fried pickles!  Yumm!!  Even Mikaela, who is very suspicious of any new food, took a tiny bite…and smiled.  We split one order between the three of us, and went back to our campsite.  Tomorrow we are heading north, ready for another adventure.  Alabama has been a very welcoming, interesting place to be.

Our friends Lew, Andrea, and Judy all got the trivia answer correct.  The designer of the fountain we saw yesterday was also responsible for the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington, D.C.  Today’s historical trivia question:  A tent city “popped up” in Lowndes County in 1966, and lasted for nearly two years.  This is also something I never knew about until today.  Trivia question: What was the initial cause for the creation of the tent city?

I did not download the pictures from today; I only have two to share, maybe more tomorrow.  Be well. And treat others with kindness.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

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“Has anybody here, seen my old friend Martin? Can you tell me, where he’s gone? He freed a lot of people, but it seems the good, they die young….I just looked around, and he’s gone…..”

Aside from the song above being one of my very favorite songs ever, this song by Dion is one of the most meaningful songs ever. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was a very prominent figure in our history lessons today. We drove into Montgomery, the capital of Alabama. It was only a 45 minute drive from our home base. Driving into Montgomery, the scenery was mostly green trees and grass and blue skies. Occasionally we saw abandoned buildings and businesses, and it almost felt as though we had gone back in time. The old dilapidated shacks and snack bars begged the question, “where did they go, and what happened here?” It was a curious sight. There was very little traffic, and really good signage, so we got to our destination without incident.

Montgomery is not at all as I pictured it would be. It was spotless, and modern, and….empty! I mean, not a car, not a citizen…no one, but about 8 other tourists. Really – the place was empty. Being that today is Sunday, I assume that is the reason. Montgomery has a church on EVERY corner. Often times, they are directly across the street from each other. This must be a very religious community. The churches are majestic and beautiful, and have congregations of many different denominations. We were really surprised at the number of religious institutions we saw. And, yes, we found 2 synagogues that exist in Montgomery as well. Curiosity just got the best of us.

In researching things to do in Montgomery, I found a guided walking tour that ran on Saturdays and Sundays. In late May, I made reservations for the 3 of us for today, at 1:30. We arrived at the stated place, early, and all ready to go. And….no one was there. No one showed up to take our money, give us a tour, give us information, ….zip. Again, the best laid plans, don’t get you what you want. We drove around the area to see if we made some kind of mistake. We never found the tour, but what we did find is that less than a quarter mile from the center of town and the historic district, is a city filled with poverty, dilapidated and abandoned houses, and downtrodden surroundings. We did not belong in that part of town. I will let you know what happened with the tour when I investigate this further, tomorrow. Since we really had found the historic center of town, we did a self guided tour on our own. The city has numerous historic markers that told us the important historic events that happened in Montgomery. Obviously, much of the information focused on the Civil Rights Movement, and the events in the lives of Dr. King, Rosa Parks, and so many other important figures in history. The Greyhound Bus Station in town showed evidence of the dual “white” and “colored” entrances. The bus stop on which Rosa Parks boarded the bus was marked in the center of town. We were able to see many of the landmarks along the “Selma to Montgomery Freedom March”. There were fabulous dedications and fountains and monuments to Dr. King. The most touching, and most heartbreaking, is a waterpool at the Civil Rights Memorial. It is dedicated to 41 people who died in the struggle for Civil Rights, ending with the death of King. It was created by the designer Maya Lin. Trivia Question for today: What other Memorial did Maya Lin design? Answer in tomorrow’s blog.

Montgomery, however, is not just historically known for the Civil Rights movement. It was also a hub for the American Slave Trade. Congress outlawed the importation of slaves into America in 1808. The invention of the cotton gin, however, greatly increased the demand for slaves in the “lower south” – Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi, etc. This area was known as the “cotton belt”. Montgomery became the hub for the internal American Slave Trade. In fact, there is a marker in the center of town, in the Court Square, that claims it is “arguably the most historic location in America”. We have been to many places in the U.S. overflowing with history. I don’t know if this place IS the most historic location – but I will give you the reasons why they profess it is. Montgomery’s Court Square was: 1) host to a massive slave market, 2) the location from which the telegram was sent that ignited the Civil War at Fort Sumter, and 3) in 1955, was the spot where Rosa Parks boarded the bus, and became the location of the start of the Montgomery Bus Boycott. The Court Square has a beautiful historic fountain as well. We walked around this area, and read and digested the history in quiet thought. We did feel transported back in time. A few blocks away, we found the Capitol building. We walked the steps up to the door (Mikaela said it reminded her of the “Rocky” movie steps!), and turned around to see the city from the top. It was at the base of these steps that Dr. King addressed the 25,000 people who gathered at the end of the “Selma to Montgomery Voting Rights March”. Most poignant of all, for me, was something Mikaela noticed. In the cross walk, on the way to the steps, footprints of all different sizes and shapes were etched into the asphalt. They symbolized the thousands of men, women and children who marched for their Civil Rights. These historic symbols are beautifully preserved and cared for, so future generations can understand, comprehend, and remember.

We were planning on going to the famous Union Train Station, which acts as a Visitor’s Center. Unfortunately, it was closed, just like so many other places in the city. There is also an area of the city known as the “Riverwalk”. We explored that as well – but not much was happening there, either. So, after we felt we sufficiently covered all that we could, we headed out of Montgomery. It is a very beautiful city, and cleaner than you can ever imagine. I am, however, curious to see what it looks like when filled with people.

On our way home, we knew we had to celebrate National Ice Cream Day! I had already gotten in my 10,000 steps – and 17 flights of stairs, so I was good to go! There is a Dairy Queen conveniently located about 7 miles from our campground. A “Reese’s Blizzard”, a “Cookie Dough Blizzard”, and an “Royal Oreo with Fudge Core” Blizzard was enjoyed by some or all of us! We ended the day with a swim in the pool back at Deer Run RV Park, which, is spotless, warm – and was empty except for us. Score!

Okay, the blog has been written, and now we are getting in the car, again, to drive to the laundry room, so I can pick up enough of an internet connection in order to post. This is a pain in the butt, frankly! With regard to yesterday’s trivia question, although a good guess by friend Gretchen – the Blue Angels – was given, it wasn’t correct. The Tuskegee Airmen are celebrating their 75th anniversary this year. Now I need to catch some sleep, as tomorrow is also a history-filled day. Some pictures below will help illustrate our day. Be well.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

The Court Square Fountain

The Court Square Fountain

The footprints in the crosswalk

The footprints in the crosswalk

Civil Rights Monument

Civil Rights Monument

Rosa Parks' story

Rosa Parks’ story

The 3 of us, learning, remembering...and melting.

The 3 of us, learning, remembering…and melting.

“Butterfly, in the sky, I can go, twice as high, Take a look, it’s in a book, a Reading Rainbow!”

Our activities today inspired our title! The Reading Rainbow song! We spent the day reading.  It’s a luxury we do not afford ourselves very often during the year.  For today, Rich read, and finished, “14th Deadly Sin” by James Patterson.  He liked this one more than last week’s book. It was an easy read, with an excellent story line and a cliff hanger ending.  That way, he’s all ready for NEXT Saturday’s book.  He loves Patterson’s books.  I am 2/3 done with the book I started this morning – Jennifer Weiner’s “Who do you love?”  Just like EVERY book by Weiner, my favorite author, I am in love with this book, and have trouble putting it down.  It’s an in-depth story of the lives of 2 completely different characters, and how, over time, their lives intertwine.  This is a must read, friends.  And Mikaela is heavily into Book 4 of “The Mortal Instruments” – “City of Fallen Angels”. She hasn’t put the book down yet, and vows to finish it before she goes to sleep.  And to think, we used to have to PAY her to read!

We are in Troy, Alabama, with beautiful, breezy weather and nice people, and we spent the day relaxing and reading.  Unfortunately, there is absolutely no internet anywhere near our sight, and so, when I want to blog, I need to be in the laundry room.  I write the blog on my lap top on my couch, and then shlep across the campground to be able to post it. That’s a definite drawback.  There are families here with children, and their kids were upset all day that they had no wifi.  It is a necessity in campgrounds these days, for those of us who keep connected.  The literature and ads for this beautiful park advertise “Free wifi throughout the park.”  That simply is a lie. If they didn’t advertise it, fine. But, they do.  As a consumer, that bothers me.

Rich took a walk around the park, and took a dip in the pool, and met a lovely family who is coming through from Florida, on their way back to Illinois.  They are leaving here in the morning, and won’t stop until they are home.  Now, that’s a long trip.  We are based here for the next few days – taking day trips out in our rental car.  Tomorrow begins the history part of our vacation.  I mean, we will enjoy ourselves, but the main reason to come to Alabama is for a living history lesson…for all of us.  There’s no better way to really learn.  Oh, one cute story – the nice woman at the Rental Car desk told me that she LOVED my accent. I have an accent? She was the one that had the accent! It was very funny, as I was going to tell her the same thing.

This evening, we are sitting in our RV, watching television.  We have about 70 channels – and yet, there’s not much to watch.  We find ourselves drawn to CNN, with the current state of the world and the political news that keeps us on our toes.  More interesting are the specials on elections past, and the “true stories” that we never knew about.

The answer to Thursday’s trivia question: What branch of the U.S. Military has many training bases along Florida’s Emerald Coast? Friend Karen G. guessed correctly – the Air Force.  We saw bases all along our ride. Tonight’s trivia question: Along the same lines as Thursday’s question, what special group is celebrating 75 years together this year?

I have no new pictures today; I promise there will be some tomorrow.

Take care.  Enjoy your Sunday.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela

“Sweet home Alabama, where the skies are so blue…”

ALABAMA! We made it! We are in the Deer Run RV Park in Troy, Alabama.  Troy has a university, stores, restaurants,  industry,  and, so far, very nice folks. On the ride from Navarre to Troy, we had no problems at all. It was a delightful ride. And that’s  because…we saw no one. Nothing! Grass, trees, blue skies – yes. People and cars – almost none. There were some beautiful huge houses here and there, but we saw no one. I don’t think I could live like that.

This RV park is completely different than any park we’ve visited this summer. It has a very “country-like” feel, with grass, trees, ponds and rolling hills. It is so spacious. But, it is also very hilly. Not my cup of tea. But, we’ll make do. There is almost no WiFi, so I have to come sit in the laundry room to blog. And, it’s quite a shlep. I will get into detail tomorrow night; just wanted you to know we arrived. For those who celebrate,  Shabbat Shalom.  And, for everyone reading, I wish you a peaceful weekend. We ALL need more of that.

Catch you tomorrow night.

Marla, Rich and Mikaela 

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